Knowing the Mind and Heart Through Words and Actions
I came across this quote recently. I will share it with you and then share some of my thoughts regarding this quote and discipleship.
If you want to know someone’s mind, listen to their words. If you want to know their heart, watch their actions.
In leadership, discerning, the true character and intent of those we lead – and even of our ourselves – requires more than just listening to what is said. Words reveal the mind, but actions reveal the heart. A wise leader understands this distinction and seeks to lead with integrity, ensuring that their words and deeds align.
- Words Reveal the Mind
Our words are a reflection of our thoughts, beliefs, and values. Jesus himself teaches that what comes from the mouth originates in the heart. [Matthew 12:34-35]
A leader must listen carefully – not just to what is spoken but to how and why it is spoken. Clear, truthful communication reflects a sound mind and intentional leadership.
- Actions Reveal the Heart
While words express thoughts, actions confirm character. A leader may say they value integrity, but if their actions contradict their words, their heart is revealed. [James 1:22]
A leader’s influence is not determined by eloquence alone, but by the consistency of their actions. Jesus also warned against hypocrisy, calling leaders to lead by example rather than empty words: [Matthew 23:2-3]
- Aligning Words and Actions in Leadership
The most effective leaders ensure that their words align with their actions. Paul urged Timothy to be an example in both speech and conduct: [1 Timothy 4:12]
A leader who speaks wisdom, but acts, foolishly loses credibility. A leader, whose actions reflect their words earns trust and inspires those they lead.
Leading with Integrity
A leader must listen carefully to the words of others to understand their mind, but they must observe their actions to discern their heart. Likewise, we must strive to ensure that our own words and actions reflect the heart of Christ. When both align, we lead with integrity, credibility, and godly wisdom.
[1 John 3:18]
Let our leadership be marked by truth and speech and righteousness in action so that we reflect the heart of God and all we do.
Making Disciples: Aligning Words and Actions in Leadership
Jesus’ command to make disciples [Matthew 28: 19-20] is not just about teaching doctrine – it’s about modeling a way of life. Discipleship is built on both words and actions. The principle that “words reveal the mind, and actions reveal the heart” is crucial to making disciples effectively.
- Teaching with Words – Shaping the Mind
Discipleship begins with teaching. Jesus constantly spoke the truth, explaining the Kingdom of God, correcting misunderstandings, and instructing his followers on how to live. Paul emphasized the role of teaching in discipleship: [2 Timothy 2:2]
Words shape, a disciples thinking, helping them understand God’s ways. A disciple must be taught the truth before they can live it out.
- Leading by Example – Transforming the Heart
However, discipleship is not just about transferring knowledge; it is about transformation. Jesus didn’t just teach – He lived what he taught. He modeled servanthood, humility, and love. His actions proved his heart, making His teachings credible. He told his disciples: [John 13:15].
Paul followed this model, urging believers to imitate him as he imitated Christ. [1 Corinthians 11:1]. This shows that discipleship requires more than words – it requires a life that exemplifies Christ.
- True Discipleship Requires Both Words and Actions
If a disciple maker only speaks the truth but does not live it, their message loses credibility. If they live a godly life but do not teach, others may admire them but not understand how to follow Christ themselves. Jesus Great Commission includes both elements. [Matthew 28: 19-20]
Discipleship requires both:
- Teaching truth [Words] – Shapes the disciple’s mind.
- Living truth [Actions] – Transforms the disciple’s heart.
- The Call to Authentic Discipleship
Discipleship is a journey of both instruction and example. If we want to make true disciples, we must:
- Speak truthfully to shape minds with God’s wisdom.
- Live righteously to reflect the heart of Christ.
When our words and actions align, we don’t just teach about Jesus – we reveal Him. This is the essence of discipleship: guiding others not just in knowledge but in transformation.
Let us Lead Like Champions.
Let’s Go Make Disciples.
Praying with and for each one of you.
In His Service,
Pastor Les